Appreciating Differences

Overcoming Overwhelm Newsletter – January 2010
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Welcome to my first newsletter for 2010!
I hope this finds you well rested and ready to head into the new year. We enjoyed a quiet Xmas, just what the doctor ordered to recharge our collective batteries. Many people at this time of year review the year that was and set their goals for the coming one. What are your goals? Where would you like to be at the end of 2010? Imagine how satisfying it will be to look back and see the wonder of the journey. What are your chances of achieving these goals? Do you need some assistance in keeping you on track, from giving up when the going gets tough? That’s where I can help in dissolving self-limiting beliefs so that you truly can achieve anything you want.>
I thought we’d start the year on a theoretical note with an explanation of the differences between the sexes, different organs in our bodies, Yin/Yang and Traditional Chinese Medicine Theory stuff. I hope you find it interesting, let me know if it’s all too confusing.

Appreciating the differences in the world.
I must thank a wonderful friend of mine, Trevor for this explanation.
We were discussing Traditional Chinese Medicine theory one day and his view was so simple I feel I must share it with you…..

We have all heard of Yin and Yang, but what’s it all about? Balance in a nut-shell.
Shades of grey, opposites that work as a team. And more importantly how to care for each facet.
Take for example the traditional male and female roles and combine these with our internal organs.
Yin is female and the Yin organs are the heart, spleen, kidneys, liver and lungs. Yang is male and the Yang organs are the small and large intestines, bladder, gall bladder and stomach.
All well and good, but what is the significance? I hear you ask.

Well, think of the way men operate and how this ties in with these organs.
The Yang organs work when we need them to, not all the time, but intensely when required, they jump to attention- to digest our food or store and release the urine produced. They work in bursts but then need a rest to recover. Men love to work hard and all they ask for is half an hour of recovery time. Imagine how your stomach would feel if you just kept eating and eating without any rests?

Now think about the Yin organs and the traditional female role.
Our hearts, kidneys, liver, spleen and lungs work continuously without complaint, hour after hour, day after day, slowly plodding along keeping us alive. The traditional female, mother role is also quite continual, often thankless, into the night to keep the house operating. A gentle word of appreciation and we’ll happily keep going.

It may sound sexist, but this really is how we are- with shades of grey of course- all men have some female aspects to their make-up and all females have some male traits, but on the whole, this theory holds. In today’s society the two roles are adapting, but the inherent makeup of both men and women still remains the same. By understanding the differences between each other and knowing how we can show our thanks, better relationships all round will result.

Different way of looking at it, isn’t it?
Traditional Chinese Medicine is the basis of Kinesiology and acknowledges the relationships that exist between every part of our bodies, every part of nature and the balance, or imbalance that exists. It is complex but simple, fascinating and can shed light on why we do certain things in certain situations. I truly love it.


This month’s quote…

The ship may be safer in the harbour, but it wasn’t designed for that. Where is your ship?

Robyn
xxx


When we follow our truth we are always in the place where we recognise opportunities and experiences that draw us into our fullest potential and depth of our love.

Small Stresses become Overwhelming- Overcoming Overwhelm Newsletter – December 2009


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Hi again!

Can you believe it’s December already? Functions, parties call us and add to our busy lifestyles. If you would like to refresh your memory on my tips for surviving Xmas, check out last December’s newsletter - tips for surviving Xmas

We have been extremely fortunate to have witnessed the transformation of our tadpoles into tiny frogs- I see the new year as a similar situation where many of us endeavour to undertake changes in our lives. While change can be scary, it can also be wonderful. If the fear is preventing you from taking the plunge from ‘tadpole-hood’ to’ frog-dom’ let me help you reveal your true identity. I am consulting through January, so call to make your appointment.

How small stresses can lead to overwhelm.


If I raised a glass of water and asked 'How heavy is this glass of water?' What would you say?Answers may range from 20g to 500g- it depends on the size of the glass. But, the absolute weight doesn't matter. It depends on how long you try to hold it..

If I hold it for a minute, that's not a problem. If I hold it for an hour, I'll have an ache in my right arm. If I hold it for a day, you'll have to call an ambulance. In each case, it's the same weight, but the longer I hold it, the heavier it becomes.
And that's the way it is with stress in our lives. If we carry our burdens all the time, sooner or later, As the burden becomes increasingly heavy, We won't be able to carry on.
As with the glass of water, You have to put it down for a while and rest before holding it again. When we're refreshed, we can carry on with the burden.

Whatever burdens you're carrying now, Let them down for a moment if you can. Put down anything that may be a burden to you right now.

Don't pick it up again until after you've rested a while, and only if you really need to pick it up again.
Maybe its time to leave it where you put it.
I can help you ‘put things down’ that may seem stuck to your hand.

This month’s quote…

The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way. The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past; you can't go forward in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches.


See you again in 2010,
Robyn
xxx



When we follow our truth we are always in the place where we recognise opportunities and experiences that draw us into our fullest potential and depth of our love.

Tips for Exams - Overcoming Overwhelm Newsletter – November 2009
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Hi again!


This month I’m putting my newsletter out a bit early so that I can offer some tips for those of you who are doing, or are living with someone who is doing, exams at this time of year. Exams are very stressful and even the most ‘cool, calm and collected’ of us can experience episodes of ‘tired and emotional’, panic, doubt or general melt-down.
Those studying can be tempted to burn the midnight oil only to find themselves too tired the next day to function efficiently and maybe even pick up germs that otherwise would bounce off us.


Read my tips below and if you are still feeling overwhelmed or just want some chill-out time call for an appointment to get you back on top again.


5 Tips for Surviving Exams.


1. Keep as ‘normal as possible’ routine - Don’t forgo everything for study- it won’t sink in. If you play sport or have a part-time job, keep doing it.
2. Sleep- sounds simple, but going to bed at a reasonable hour and getting enough sleep will enable you to have much more effective studying the next day. Especially the night before an exam, get a good night’s sleep so you can conquer the nerves early on and do your best in the exam
3. Eat well- another simple approach to effective survival of a very stressful time of your life. Breakfast, lunch and dinner- protein, carbs, fruit and veg- the occasional treat. Eat with your family, they will help you to maintain your sense of belonging and support.
4. Limit or eliminate ‘Stimulants’- coffee, sports drinks, sugary soft drinks, chocolate let alone heavier stimulants all overload your body giving a short-lived high only to leave you lower than you started, so opt for nuts or a walk to help keep you focussed.
5. Get some exercise- whether it’s going for a walk or a swim, playing sport, doing yoga, whatever- don’t spend all of your swat-vac and times between exam sitting at a desk stiffening up. You’ll end up lethargic and hunched. If you really can’t afford time out to go for a 30 minute break, at least stand up and stretch your body every couple of hours, you’ll feel better for it.



The differences between the different modalities I use.



A common question I am asked in clinic and when talking to a person about Overwhelm and Wellness is “What is it that you do?”
The simple answer is, “I use results-based therapies drawn from ancient and modern holistic modalities from around the world.” Read on to find out more….

At today’s fast pace of life, stress (a much overused word), is something that is thrown towards us almost constantly. Your ability to deal with negative stress directly corresponds to your own wellness. Increasing stresses often have a detrimental affect on your physical and emotional self. My goal is to bring you back into balance using these different modalities so that your current stress load is decreased.


Kinesiology is a totally customised treatment modality combining gentle, western style muscle monitoring with ancient Chinese philosophy, acupressure and natural therapies enabling busy, stressed people to get their lives back on track. Non-invasive and relaxing, clients often leave feeling lighter and more able to take on the outside world.


Reiki is a relaxing, touch-based therapy which can be enjoyed even if you are too sore for a massage. It calms both the mind and body allowing deep healing. A Reiki session can include an aromatherapy foot massage utilising essential oil blends to reduce tension, detox the body or increase energy levels, it depends what you want from your session.


Ear candling is an ancient ritual seen in many different cultures, from India, China, North America even the Australian Aborigines. Gentle and relaxing, it draws debris from the ear canal, can reduce sinus and head pressure or relieve hay-fever symptoms. Once again, it depends what you want from your session.


I can give you a personalised combination of all of these modalities, or you can choose what you want. How many other practitioners allow you to choose your own treatment?


This month’s quote…

'Love is what makes you smile when you're tired.'




Til next time,
Robyn
xxx



When we follow our truth we are always in the place where we recognise opportunities and experiences that draw us into our fullest potential and depth of our love.

Overcoming Overwhelm- what is it?

People have been asking me, ‘What exactly is Overwhelm?’

Well, think of it like this… If some aspect of your life is lacking, causing you to lose sleep, or have thoughts circling around your head all day, you’re probably experiencing some form of Overwhelm.
You might be extremely successful in many areas of your life, but question the value of it when another part isn’t up to that standard.

Some people describe being too emotional, some not enough. Some know what they want but don’t know how to get there while others admit they wouldn’t recognise when they have reached their goal. Some people are filled with regret and seem stuck in the past while others are too busy planning for the future to enjoy today.

If any of this sounds familiar, it doesn’t mean you’re a failure, just in need of some assistance in getting the most out of ALL facets so that you can live a truly fulfilled life.

More flexibility.

If finding the time to deal with your overwhelming life has been difficult, I’m pleased to announce greater flexibility in getting an appointment to see me.
I can now offer appointments Monday, Tuesdays, Wednesdays and Fridays during the day and also Tuesday evenings. So don’t let a busy schedule stop you from looking after YOU, call now to find a convenient time.

What is information and what is marketing?

This month I thought we’d discuss the overwhelming amount of information we are bombarded with every day and try to decipher what it’s all about.
Think about the conflicting messages we are sent and let’s look at who is sending them. Think about how the messages change from one time to another- we all want to do what’s best for us and our family, but they keep changing the message!

I remember when my son Shaun was small, the recommendation was that from 6 months you should brush your child’s teeth with a small amount of toothpaste each day- fine, did that- What a good mother I am. BUT- a few years later when I had Natalie, they’d changed the recommendations and mothers were then told not to use toothpaste until the child was 2 years old! Had I done the wrong thing by Shaun, should I feel guilty that he’d had toothpaste? No, the information was out of date; we can simply do the best of our knowledge with the information at the time and use our own common sense.

Take for example, the dietary recommendations put forward.
We are told we should eat red meat several times per week. Who is sending this message? The Red Meat Corporation.
Who tells us to drink 3 serves of Dairy per day? The Dairy Corporation.
Then the one that really gets me at the moment is the ‘Anti-bacterial Sprays’ currently all over the media- do we really need them? No, most of the bacteria they kill are harmless anyway. It is marketing and the company want out make money out of you. They use the emotions of fear and guilt to ‘make you’ feel that you can’t live without their products.
Is this scientific data or marketing? It’s difficult to tell the difference sometimes.
What about all the other messages we are being told day after day? What can we do about it?

My advice is to get as balanced a view as possible- listen to both sides of any story and form your own opinion.


Early Bird Registration Extended!

I have decided to EXTEND the cut-off date for Early Bird Price for the “Who’s Really Number 1?” retreat day until October 14th due to the school holidays.

Date - Saturday 14th November!!
Time – 8am – 6pm. No late-comers, you must be willing to make this commitment to yourself and be on time!
Venue - Victor Harbour. On the beautiful south coast of Adelaide. (exact address given once registered)

Cost - only $179 if paid before 14th October- then becomes $339.

Please forward your name along with cash or cheque to Robyn Stitt PO Box 920 Strathalbyn to secure your attendance.

“Good food, good company and good energy.”

On the program is-
Yoga- to stretch and invigorate the body,
Sound Healing session to soothe the soul and ears,
Session on ‘The Law of Attraction’- you’ve probably heard about it. But what does it mean and how do you put it into practice and make it work for you?
Self-Sabotage Releasing Ceremony including a Labyrinth Walk- if you’ve never done one of these before (and even if you have) the results can be nothing short of amazing and it’s a wonderful experience to boot!
There will be time throughout the day for self reflection, talking with others, walking on the beach etc and you can do as little or as much as you wish.

Places will be limited to a maximum of 12.
First in, best dressed- once the places are filled, no extras will be accommodated.
Get in quick. It should be great.

This month’s quote…

‘Life is all about choices, when you cut away all the junk, every situation is a choice’


If you have a topic or question you would like answered, please drop me an email and I will endeavour to answer it in upcoming newsletters.

Til next time,

Robyn
xxx

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Overcoming Overwhelm Newsletter – September 2009
e-newsletter from Robyn Stitt, Overwhelm Consultant 0437 601 550


Do you like my photo?

I’ve decided to put a photo I have taken in each month’s newsletter, now that I’ve got my new camera. Photography is another of my passions. I’m not an expert, and would rather take photos of trees, old buildings and grains of sand than people, but we’re all different.

This month’s photo I took on a visit to Milang with my family.
I like how it shows the layers or levels that the water has been then smooth, even sand at the bottom. I think of this photo as symbolising what my treatments do- peel back the layers of your issue one by one until your energy is balanced or smooth.
What level are you at?

Would you like a talk on Overwhelm, Communication or General Wellness?

My diary is starting to have a few free spaces in it for talks again before Xmas.

If you, or some group you belong to, would like an evening of fun and learning, give me a call or email to discuss your needs. You’ll get to understand yourself better; look at things differently to how you might have always done; take home useful information to use and even the chance to WIN some free treatment for yourself or a family member or friend!
I can accommodate a day or evening option.

Phone 0437 601 550 for more details.

Early Bird Registration Ends Soon!

The cut-off date for Early Bird Price for the “Who’s Really Number 1?” Retreat Day is rapidly approaching.

Date - Saturday 14th November!!
Time – 8am – 6pm. No late-comers, you must be willing to make this commitment to yourself and be on time!
Venue - Victor Harbour. On the beautiful south coast of Adelaide. (exact address given once registered)

Cost - only $179. Due September 30th
Please forward your name along with cash or cheque to Robyn Stitt PO Box 920 Strathalbyn to secure your attendance.

“Good food, good company and good energy.”

On the program is-

Yoga- to stretch and invigorate the body,
Sound Healing session to soothe the soul and ears,
Session on ‘The Law of Attraction’- you’ve probably heard about it. But what does it mean and how do you put it into practice and make it work for you?
Self-Sabotage Releasing Ceremony including a Labyrinth Walk- if you’ve never done one of these before (and even if you have) the results can be nothing short of amazing and it’s a wonderful experience to boot!

There will be time throughout the day for self reflection, talking with others, walking on the beach etc and you can do as little or as much as you wish.

Places will be limited to a maximum of 12.
First in, best dressed- once the places are filled, no extras will be accommodated.
Get in quick. It should be great.

This month’s quote…
“A truly happy person is one who can enjoy the scenery on a detour.”

If you have a topic or question you would like answered, please drop me an email and I will endeavour to answer it in upcoming newsletters.

Til next time,
Robyn
xxx


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Questions or comments? E-mail us at rj@stitt.com.au or phone 0437 601 550

When we follow our truth we are always in the place where we recognise opportunities and experiences that draw us into our fullest potential and depth of our love.

My retreat day is announced!

Overcoming Overwhelm Newsletter – August 2009
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It’s August already and here I am again bringing you helpful hints on overcoming overwhelm.

The second workshop I did during July was on Candida.
2 ½ days of it!
Who would have thought you could talk about Candida for that long?

Candida is actually the name given to a group of moulds and yeasts and is SO much more than Thrush. The list of symptoms exceeds 100! Occurring about equally in females AND males, symptoms can include depression, sugar and carb cravings, decreased libido, persistent bladder infections, tiredness the list goes on and on.
Candida thrives when our body’s pH is out of balance which occurs when we are stressed. It’s quite a vicious cycle as having candida present in your body is a stress in itself- just ask anyone who’s had a ‘dose of Thrush’ in the past.

I am now one of only a handful of therapists in SA to be able to assist you in finally ridding your body from this nasty condition. It won’t happen overnight, but it will happen.
Make an appointment for a complimentary assessment; it should only take about 10 minutes.

All Organised Now!
The final preparations are underway and I can now formally announce my “Who’s Really Number 1?” retreat day.

Date - Saturday 14th November!!

Time – 8am – 6pm. No late-comers, you must be willing to make this commitment to yourself and be on time!

Venue - Victor Harbour. On the beautiful south coast of Adelaide. (exact address given once registered)

Cost - only $179. Due September 30th

Please forward your name along with cash or cheque to Robyn Stitt PO Box 920 Strathalbyn to secure your attendance.

You will enjoy good food, good company and good energy.
On the program is Yoga, a Sound Healing, a session on ‘The Law of Attraction- putting it into practice and making it work for you’ and a Self-Sabotage Releasing Ceremony including a Labyrinth Walk. There will be time throughout the day for self reflection, talking with others, walking on the beach etc and you can do as little or as much as you wish.

Places will be limited to a maximum of 12.
First in, best dressed- once the places are filled, no extras will be accommodated.
Get in quick. It should be great.

This month’s quote…

“People change when the pain of staying the same is greater than the pain of change! – don’t wait till then, change now”
~ Sylvia Marina

If you have a topic or question you would like answered, please drop me an email and I will endeavour to answer it in upcoming newsletters.

Til next time,
Robyn
xxx

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When we follow our truth we are always in the place where we recognise opportunities and experiences that draw us into our fullest potential and depth of our love.

Overcoming Overwhelm- my 6 Tips to turn Chaos into Order

Overwhelm Newsletter – July 2009
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If you thought I’d gone quiet for a while, you’re right- I’ve been to two workshops in June/ July and learnt heaps to share with everyone.

OVERWHELM!!!

This is my new Catch-Cry.
After a review of all my clients, trying to find some commonality amongst them, I’ve found it. Overwhelm.

Whether it’s kids with behaviour problems or learning difficulties, adults with Chronic Fatigue, Sleep Problems, Depression or Anxiety or business owners struggling to keep on top of everything, it all comes down to Overwhelm.
Do you know of someone who seems to be always overwhelmed? If so, send them my details and offer them a hand up.

A Slight Change of Plan!
As mentioned above, I’ve been to some workshops and one of them was around hosting events.
Instead of having my FIRST Wellness Retreat in November, it’s now a DAY ONLY event.
It’s going to be held Saturday 14th November!!

Venue- Victor Harbour, only one hour from Adelaide on the beautiful South Coast of South Australia

Time – 8am til 6pm

Cost- still to be determined, I promise I’ll let you know soon.

Included is lunch and morning and afternoon tea.

On the program already is Yoga, a Sound Healing, Labyrinth Walk and Self-Sabotage Releasing Ceremony. There will be plenty of time for self reflection, talking with others, walking on the beach etc and you can do as little or as much as you wish.

I have a list of people started, if you are among them and still interested, would like to add your name to the list or just like more information, please send me an email, or speak to me in person.
Places will be limited to a maximum of 12. Get in quick. It should be great.
Money time will be soon…..

Overcoming Overwhelm
My 6 Secrets to Turn Chaos into Order (without falling in a heap)

1. Delegate—as soon as littlies can walk they can put their own dirty clothes into the laundry basket. Men can vacuum and do dishes. Don’t be someone else’s slave.

2. Wear Hats -When you are at work, only think about work, as soon as you step out of work and put your ‘home hat ‘on, forget about work., etc. Remember to only wear ONE hat at a time.

3. Multi-task—while the computer is turning on, pop a load of washing into the machine. Don’t waste a minute of your precious time waiting!

4. Turn off the TV—we spend too much time watching stuff just because it’s on, watch only what you really want to. Better still, record it and watch later fast-forwarding the ads.

5. Do things in bulk—buy staples such as meat, rice, flour etc in bulk, then cook and freeze, it saves both time and money. But clean as you go.

6. Take some time for Yourself—every day if you can, but at least every week. A walk alone, a cuppa with a friend, a luxurious bath, something where you can nurture your soul!


If you have a topic or question you would like answered, please drop me an email and I will endeavour to answer it in upcoming newsletters.
Til next time,
Robyn
xxx

If you think someone you know might enjoy reading this newsletter, please forward it to them.
To remove or add your name from our mailing list, please email rj@stitt.com.au
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When we follow our truth we are always in the place where we recognise opportunities and experiences that draw us into our fullest potential and depth of our love.